Personality plays a significant role in determining one’s growth and interpersonal relationships as well. Impressive behaviour, social acceptance and the ability to face challenges are some of the factors which influence the shaping up of one's personality. Humans possess an inherent quality to shape their own personality. Everyone wishes to build a personality which could impress others. However, it often remains a dream rather than a reality. A desirable personality pleases others and makes one acceptable to others as well. Here are 7 simple tips which could help you achieve an amazing personality.
Be a good listener
Sometimes a person may be talking about something which you have absolutely no interest in, even if it's a subject in which you are an expert. In such situations, many people find it difficult to hide their dissatisfaction and their facial expressions often reveal disgust for the other person. However, a great personality would be someone who accepts everyone and has the patience to listen to others. Every individual wishes to be listened by others. The human beings, who listen to others, irrespective of their social status, are the true extraordinary ones.
In case you are in a hurry and do not have the time to listen to them, you could politely tell them that. You must also assure them that you would be pleased to listen to what they have to say, in another situation.
Be an amazing speaker
You should be able to communicate yourself well. However, you shouldn’t divert too much from the topic. Don’t let others hide themselves from you just because you talk too much about unnecessary topics. Try to speak according to the situations and that will earn you many friends. Being able to speak pleasantly is an amazing quality which helps make you stand out for your charming personality.
Improve your knowledge and perceptions
It is your knowledge and lofty ideals which earn you respect from others. Make others believe, through your impeccable personality, that you are someone who could turn to whenever there is a crisis situation. Try to constantly update your knowledge in various fields and you will be wanted everywhere. You will then be able to talk about others’ favourite topics and understand them even better.
Improving your reading skills would definitely help to widen your horizons. Make use of the modern media to keep updating on the latest information and knowledge.
Meet new people
Every individual is different and possess unique personality traits. Meeting people from different backgrounds and cultures, and engaging in a productive discourse with their unique opinions and visions would enrich your experiences and inter personal relationships. You could turn it into great learning opportunities and develop your intellectual faculties as well. Try to impress everyone with your unique personality.
Smile and be positive
Some people may be interested only in finding faults with others. They waste their time trying to criticize what others do or say. However, being positive is an important quality that can shape up your personality in a favourable manner. You could achieve such a pleasant and positive attitude by making certain changes in the lifestyle as well. You should be able to start a day with positive thoughts and habits. Moreover, you should be able laugh honestly. It is through your honest smile that you could pass on the positive energy to others.
Be kind and helpful
It is important to have a kind heart to help others during their time of distress. An amazing individual could easily understand others and their problems just through a simple glance. Some people may not be comfortable opening up. However, if you are able understand their difficulties and share their pain, then you are being an incredible human being rather than projecting your personality. Accepting everyone with an open heart and sharing their woes would make you acceptable.
Respecting every human being, irrespective of their status or worth, is what makes you an extraordinary personality. Everyone is equal; hence try to be thankful even for the smallest favours. Respecting and accepting everyone helps you mould yourself as an impeccable personality and thereby achieve greater heights in life. Then others would shower respect and love on you as well.